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Please note that Gay.com has been discontinued and is no longer available. You can read our old review of Gay.com below, or check out the rest of the Gay Dating Websites we've reviewed.

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Category: Gay Dating Websites (AKA Gay Dating Sites)
Website: http://www.gay.com

Editor's Review Costs & Features User Reviews

Gay.com Costs & Features

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  • Basic membership is free.
  • Premium membership:
    • 1 month for $11.99
    • 3 months for $29.99
    • 12 months for $89.99
  • Pay for premium membership by credit card subscription. The following cards are accepted:
    • Visa
    • Mastercard
    • Amex
    • Discover
  • Sign up for premium membership and receive a year's free subscription to 'Out' magazine.
  • Gay interest specialists: part of the Here Media Inc. group of websites devoted to gay interests and lifestyles (accessible from Gay.com).
  • Over 3 million members: Gay.com says it is “the largest online community of gay men”.
  • News: check out the latest gay news.
  • Lifestyle: top gay stories which you can link to Facebook or Twitter.
  • Recommended reading: the site recommends news and articles that you may wish to read.
  • Pop out chat: 1-on-1 chats open in a side tab which can easily be hidden or expanded.
  • Match: be matched to men based on your profile preferences.
  • Photos: add up to 25 pictures to your profile.
  • Hide: control who gets to see your profile pictures.
  • Browse: flick through member profiles and email members for free (limited to 5 per day for free members).
  • Find men: use quick search or custom search options to look for members and save your custom searches.
  • Store messages: save messages for up to two weeks.
  • My friends: create and manage a list of your contacts.
  • My hot list: create and manage a list of profiles that catch your eye.
  • Who thinks I'm hot list: see whose eye you've caught.
  • Flirt: wink at other members.
  • Group chat: join a chat room and chat online with other members.
  • Premium membership includes the following extra features:
    • Full photos: view profile pictures in full-size.
    • Hidden photos: access premium and private pictures (requires agreement from the member whose pictures you are viewing).
    • Communicate: send multiple emails daily.
    • Who likes me: check out who's viewed your profile.
    • Talk: enter multiple chat rooms simultaneously
    • No ads: chat rooms are free from advertising.
    • Keep your messages: save messages for up to a year.
    • Block list: stop other members from contacting you.
    • Videos: watch full length exclusive video content (US only).
    • Help: enhanced customer support.


Performing a Search:

There are a number of different ways of searching for members on Gay.com:

  • Quick search includes the following:
    • Gender
    • Age range
    • Zip code
  • Custom search includes the following:
    • Gender
    • Build
    • Height
    • Age
    • Weight
    • Geographical region/zip code
    • Personal info:
      • Eye color
      • Hair color
      • Relationship status
      • Sexuality
      • Relationship looking for
      • Ethnicity
      • HIV status
    • Languages spoken
    • Interests:
      • Activism/politics
      • Camping/outdoors
      • Fashion/design
      • Travel
      • Clubbing
      • And more
    • Lifestyle:
      • Tattoos
      • Piercings
      • Smoking
      • Alcohol
      • Drug use
      • And more
    • Premium info (premium members only):
      • Things they're into (fetishes)
      • Body hair
      • Roles/positions
      • Endowment
      • Frequency
      • Cut/uncut
  • It's also possible to filter your search further to look for:
    • Profiles with pictures only
    • Members currently online
    • New members
    • Keywords


Please note that Gay.com has now been discontinued.

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