Suspended - no warning - no email. 31 July 2016 Reviewer: Aryugaetu from IL-WI Border - USA
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After finding someone *on my own, not through Recon) I didn't think I would need Recon, so I did the polite thing and leave. But, after 6 months, he totally changed his mind and went back to his old boyfriend. I tried to go back to Recon, but my old user name wouldn't work, so I added a new one and clearly mentioned my old name in the first line of my description. All went well for a few days, then I was "suspended". I couldn't log on to comment and ask why, they sent no emails explaining anything.
I wasn't trying to deceive. I was being as open as possible. The only thing I can think of is they are paying mindless minions to follow the orders strictly; no explanations, no place to appeal their apparent randomness as if they believe they make no mistakes.
My advice is to find a local organization to meet others with the same interest. They exist.
If there is nothing local for you, try "Fetlife" as a more forgiving website with a much greater appeal internationally with more "grounded" people and fewer "players".
In summary, I would not recommend Recon to a friend.